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WELCOME TO JUST ASK ZO

Dating Drama? Committment Issues?

Can't tell if it's true love or just really intense eye contact over brunch?

You're in the right place!

This blog is your no-fluff, straight-talk sanctuary for all things love - the good, the bad, and the "why am I texting this person again?" kind of messy.

Got a burning question about your love life?

Click one of the "Ask Zo" buttons and send it my way.

That's literally why I'm here - to help you untangle the heart knots with honesty, insight, and just enough sass to keep it fun.

Because sometimes your heart doesn't need another opinion - it needs a whisper of truth.

Go ahead. Ask Zo. She's listening...

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Just Ask Zo: Your Go-To Source for Relationship Guidance
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Books That Know More Than Your friends Do
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Receipts & Rendevous
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Get To Know Your Relationship

Ever wish you had someone you could ask all your burning, weird, wonderful, messy, or mildly embarrassing questions about love and relationships—without being judged or side-eyed into oblivion? You're in the right place.


I'm The Heart Whisperer—your non-biased, straight-talking, slightly sarcastic love translator. Whether you're crushing hard, committed long-term, situationshipped, or just confused as hell, I’m here to help you figure it out without all the fluff, guilt trips, or outdated advice.


This blog is your safe space to get honest insights, practical tips, and a little humor to help make sense of the emotional rollercoaster we call love. Ask anything. Seriously. No question is too small, too weird, or too complicated.


Let’s decode love—one whisper at a time.

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Your Love Life Deserves More Than Just Vibes and Bad Decisions

Who is Zo?

Hi there! I’m Zo—part relationship whisperer, part book lover, full-time fan of all things love (yes, even the messy, dramatic bits), and your favorite ordained minister who believes love deserves both honesty and humor.

For over 11 years, I’ve been the go-to person for advice on everything from “Why hasn’t he texted back?” to “Is this really the hill I want my relationship to die on?” With a B.S. in Psychology, an M.A. in Communication, and an M.S. in Sociology, I’ve spent years diving deep into how and why we connect (or crash and burn). I’ve got the degrees—but more importantly, I’ve got the receipts—from real-life experience to late-night heart-to-hearts.

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